You tell your story
Your situation, what hurts, the pattern that keeps coming back. Then 36 statements written for Aimantée, answered from the gut on a scale made of clay.
Attachment style · 3 minutes
36 statements, two inks: your anxiety and your avoidance. Aimantée places them on your map of love, tells you how you love and what sets you off, then walks with you for 30 days toward a more secure bond.
No account. Your answers never leave your phone.
best taken somewhere quiet ↓
It's not a flaw
The way you love is a learned strategy, often learned very early, to stay connected. It protected you. Today it may be choosing for you.
and strategies can be relearned.
How it works
Your situation, what hurts, the pattern that keeps coming back. Then 36 statements written for Aimantée, answered from the gut on a scale made of clay.
Two real scores, anxiety and avoidance, place you precisely on the map. Your style, your 8 sub-themes (fear of abandonment, need for independence, hypervigilance…) and your triggers.
Every day, a short lesson, a concrete exercise and a journal prompt. A streak that grows at your pace, toward loving more securely.
The four styles
Aimantée doesn't put you in a box: your exact position on the map matters as much as the name of your style.
You can get close without losing yourself, and step back without panicking.
You love hard, you read every silence, you need reassurance.
You guard your freedom and pull away when things get serious.
You want closeness and fear it at once: hot, then cold, then hot.
Couple mode
Guess your partner's style, or hand them your phone to take the test. Aimantée overlays your two inks and describes your dynamic: your dance, the trap waiting for you, and what truly helps.
then share your map as a story
Your streak
day 13: “ask without apologising”
The program
Understand your alarm system, learn to calm it, dare to say what you need, stay when it's good. Each day adapts to your style, and your journal keeps track of what changes.
A gentle reminder at the time you choose. Never any guilt if you skip a day.
100% on-device
no account, no server, no one looking over your shoulder.
Pricing
You see the name of your style for free. The full portrait, compatibility, couple mode and the 30-day program unlock with one of these plans.
Weekly
$6.99/week
3-day free trial, then $6.99 every week. Optional reminder before the trial ends.
Yearly
$39.99/year
Billed $39.99 once a year, about $0.77 a week.
Lifetime
$69.99
One payment, no renewal. All of Aimantée, forever.
Indicative US prices; the exact price in your currency, including applicable taxes, is shown in the app before any purchase. Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period, from your App Store or Google Play account settings. Terms · Privacy
Questions
No. Aimantée builds on the two-dimension model of adult attachment (anxiety and avoidance), but the 36 statements were written for the app and the result is a self-discovery estimate, not a diagnosis. It does not replace professional psychological support.
No. Aimantée works without an account or a server. Everything is computed and stored on your phone. Delete the app or erase your data in Settings and it's all gone.
Yes. Attachment style isn't a life sentence: it shifts with relationships, age and inner work. You can retake the test after the program to see where you stand.
Pick the style you think your partner has, or hand them your phone to take the test. Aimantée describes your dynamic and creates a card to share as a story.
From your App Store account settings (Settings → your name → Subscriptions) or Google Play (Payments & subscriptions). Cancel at least 24 hours before the trial ends to avoid being charged. A “Restore purchases” button is available in the app.
Aimantée is designed for adults (17+) and talks about romantic relationships.
You deserve a love where you don't have to watch the door.